Perasan

: A Malay or Indonesian word that originated from perasaan (emotions or feelings). Now used as a slang term to describe people with self-centered preconceived notions or assumptions.

Scenario 1

Person A: I smelled something. *sniffed curry from the kitchen*

Person B: Sorry sorry my socks too smelly. I will wash them today.

Person B displayed his/her perasan-ness when he/she assumed that the "scent" mentioned originated from him/her.

Scenario 2

Person A: Ahhh, let's go drink bubble tea!

Person B: Sigh, *shakes head* Looks very upset.

Person A: Oh sh*t, I think B doesn't like me. That's why B doesn't want to go Bubble tea with me.

Person A is the perasan one this time by assuming that B's upset mood was caused by A's actions.

Scenario 3

A is the perfect friend. A is always kind and helpful. A is always there for B.

B imagined that A likes B while A was just being a supportive friend.

So, B is being perasan, making self-centered assumptions.

Conclusion, don't be perasan, the world doesn't revolve around one single person.