马来西亚华语 - 看你犯了多少项？？^0^

中国人 ：今晚你有空吗？我没空！马来西亚华人 ：今晚你得不得空？我不得空！

中国人 ：饼干受潮了…。马来西亚华人 ：饼干'漏风'了…。

中国人 ：从上海去苏州要多少个小时？马来西亚华人：从上海去苏州要几粒钟？

中国人 ：难道他不可以来吗？马来西亚华人：你不给他不来啊？

中国人 ：周杰伦不喜欢穿内裤。马来西亚华人：周杰伦不喜欢穿底裤。

中国人 ：我一向都是这样的。马来西亚人：我一路来都是这样的啦

中国人 ：我的手机掉进沟渠了。马来西亚华人：我的手机掉进龙沟了。

中国人 ：这样你不是很不值得吗？马来西亚华人：这样你'马'很不 '歹'？

中国人 ：你真是聪明！马来西亚华人：你真是pan nai！(源自马来语pandai，聪明的意思)

中国人 ：你安静！马来西亚华人：你diam diam！(源自马来语diam，安静的意思)

中国人 ：我要去银行取款。马来西亚华人：我要去银行'按钱'。

中国人 ：为什么？马来西亚华人：做么？

中国人 ：你很强~马来西亚华人：你很够力~

中国人 ：明天也叫他一起去吧！马来西亚华人：明天叫'埋'他一起去！

中国人 ：我很郁闷~~~马来西亚华人：我很'显'（sien）啊~~~~（'显'比郁闷的境界更高）

中国人 ：你再说我就打你！马来西亚华人：你再说我就hood你！（有点粗俗的）

中国人 ：你在说什么？马来西亚华人：你在说sommok？

中国人 ：你不要令我丢脸~。马来西亚华人：你不要'下水'我~

中国人 ：真被你气到…。马来西亚华人：被你炸到…。

中国人 ：你别乱来~。马来西亚华人：你表乱乱来~

中国人 ：你很无聊！马来西亚华人：你很废

中国人 ：XX你！马来西亚华人：Kanasai（意思是像大便一样，骂人的话）

中国人 ：迫切。马来西亚华人：bek chek

中国人 ：我们一起吃这碗面~。马来西亚华人：我们'公司'吃这碗面~（源自马来语的kongsi，就是一起分享的意思）

中国人 ：今天的天气很热~。马来西亚华人：今天的天气热到。。。。。。。。。。。。。。~~~~~~~（'到'字要拉 长，然后没有下文了）

中国人 ：哇!马来西亚华人：哇捞weh!!!!

中国人 ：我受不了他！马来西亚华人：我behtahan他！

哈哈~让我们都以正统的华语来沟通吧！

我要的幸福

站在人生的交叉点，我，又迷茫了。
为了将来，为了富裕的生活，要留美工作，就必须去面对一拖拉库的障碍和困难。
到底值得吗？留在一个根本不欢迎你，文化背景彻底不同的地方打拼，得到的和失去的，会平衡吗？我要的简单幸福，在家乡里就可以找到了吧...还是我根本就放不下这上帝让我得以一窥的奢华生活。梦想，理想，现实，太多的考验，太多的选择，太贪婪的我。

泪水

泪水是不可以轻易掉下的珍珠。
如果真的看不清楚，心被悲伤蒙蔽了的话，
眼泪是洗涤双眼最好的药剂。

原来偷走我珍珠的小偷，早已在我的心里扎了营。

谊义

叹造化弄人，赠饮之谊竟成毒害之谋...
实情天地为证，清白日月可鉴。

“毒酒”当前，无畏饮服，此勇此义，在下无以为报。

出外靠朋友

有一个大好青年，在一番努力过后，成功凭奖学金到国外求学。
然而，由于很多像滚雪球般的不幸理由，发生了严重的意外。
一切一切酿成了今日被迫中止奖学金，负伤回国的不幸。

置身在异乡求学时很艰巨的，大家应该在感恩的同时，和同学们抱持同舟共济的精神，在异乡更是应该多多关照身边的同乡好友。所谓，在家靠父母，出外靠朋友，如果连朋友这道唯一可以依赖的围墙都崩塌了，我们还有什么呢？

或许一切的不幸都是无法避免的，可是我还是忍不住会去想，如果大家可以分享更多的温暖和关怀，如果在绝望的那刻有一个支持的微笑，如果在求助无门的时候有人挺身而出，在冷风中被孤立的人是不是就可以找到重新振作的力量？

大家都在忙碌的追寻自己的梦想，可是如果因为我们的疏忽，朋友孤立无援的时候放弃了对我们的信任，成功蒙上的阴影我们可以承受吗？

希望大家在生活中的每一天，可以付出爱心和温暖的微笑，给绝望、失望的人坚持下去的力量。
不需要很大努力，一句问候，一个拥抱，一个msn留言，已经可以让被冷风冰冻的心融化。

Bluff

Life is just like a game of bluff.
Do you trust me when you should, do you see what cards I really hold?
Or do I even bother to uncover your bluff, for all that matters.
Or maybe your assumptions about me are all wrong.

Can we take the consequences?

Don't assume, it's "Ass-ing u and me".

Another game of bluff?

Impressions

What was your first impression of me, when we first met?

It is always interesting to look back in time and think about the impressions that people left in my life.

It is magical how one can start feeling special about another person, in a moment in time. And how unbelievably quickly that magic can be lost. And how indescribably difficult it is to erase that feeling and get on with life. And how instantaneously one can blow away that self-woven magical halo. It is most miraculous how love and bonds form between soul as soon as two souls reach out and open up to exchange a warm smile, a sincere conversation.

Impressions are like colors of the wind, that cannot be captured nor seen, and had to be seen with the eyes of our heart.

If you are reading this, please please comment on my post with your first impression and latest opinion of me, for old times' sake. (^-^)

逞强

从小到大，大家都说：要努力，要用心，不要依赖别人，不要苛求别人。
寻求帮助时会带来别人的困扰喔。凡是一定要全力以赴，独立承担。

我就是这样子，一步一步地走到了这里，幸好有懂我的朋友，在我撑不下去的时候，支持了我。
可叹，现在的我，还是没有能力，任性的撒娇，依赖身边的人，要求别人迁就我。

这样逞强的生活方式，只会迁就别人，从不任性的活下去，是伟大，是虚伪，还是...

像倔强的鳖，以为自己是聪明的海龟，自欺欺人，一直下去会怎样呢？

鳖，还是没办法脱下自己的防备，当条任性，惹人怜爱的鱼吧？因为脱下了防备，鳖就不再是鳖，只是赤裸裸任人宰割，引人反感，失去自我的软弱生物。

鳖，不管你是不是海龟，不管有没有人保护，只要努力往前游，就对了。因为海里还是有好多好多支持你的同伴啊。

A few words of Wisdom

"When it comes to men who are romantically interested in you, it's really simple. Just ignore everything they say and only pay attention to what they do."

From The Last lecture by Randy Pausch.

Action really does speak louder than words.

Destiny

I've never ever really believed in destiny or fate. But it struck me one day when I was humming in the showers, “这世界两个人能相遇不容易~~- it is really hard for two people to meet one another in this world"

Just imagine, in the world population of 6,706,993,152 people, the possible matches of 2 people meeting one another...the possible combinations are 2.25 * 10^19. So, me meeting you, the reader of this post, is a miracle that can occur with probability 4.45*10^-20, basically approximating 0.

It is indeed nothing less of a miracle that I am here, in Ann Arbor, studying actuarial math, pursuing my dreams, with a huge bunch of cool people, and the warmest support of my family and buddies in Malaysia.

Along my way here, if I was born in a different country, if I was taught by different people, if I've messed up my SPM, if I've skipped a grade, if I've chosen another college, if I was struck by a mishap, if anything along this intricate web of fate had happened differently.....

I would never have met everyone of these special people that makes my life worth living.

Maybe there is destiny after all, or how on earth could I have met you, laughed at that same lame joke, tasted the world's hottest most delicious sambal belacan, screamed together at the top of our throats on that thrilling ride, sang out of tune at the same song, shared that magical moment of connection, shared that same look of disgust, cried at the same movie, gossipped about the same cute guy, played on the same table/court, danced at the same song, sang at the same makmal biologi, or even just brushed shoulders on the road...

So, how can I ever stop saying, thank you Lord for knitting the most beautiful web of fate for me. I shall cherish every moment, every encounter along my way.

Angels

Thank you for making thoughtful but incredibly silly decisions.
Thank you for sharing your wise advice on life, on fashion, on being a person.
Thank you for your faith in me being a 'superwoman', I am not, and never will be, but it still means a lot to me.
Thank you for being perceptive of my facebook/msn status.
Thank you for being '8', it is a way of being concerned too.
Thank you for lending me your ears, electronically or physically.
Thank you for that warm look in your eyes that drives away all my trouble.
Thank you for that trusting smile.
Thank you for all the delicious meals/snacks.
Thank you for all the lame jokes.
Thank you for hosting gatherings at your place.
Thank you being here, being there, whenever i needed someone.
Thank you for being you.

看清楚

走路要张大眼睛。
死路千万不要直闯。
别人指的路不一定是对的那条路。
路牌之类的也不是最可靠的指引。
总之，走路真的要很小心。
最好是等到有的士的时候，快点招手上车，就可以一路顺利地抵达目的地了。